Time is Flying

I was kindly reminded the other day that I haven't written a post in awhile. A lot of changes have taken place the past few months. I can't even begin to explain it all. All I can say is that this picture says a thousand words!!!!

Yes, I'm getting married. I knew very quickly how much I loved this woman. Watching her with the kids made it even better. Now we are planning our wedding which will be Jan of 2017 in Round Top, Texas. 

On top of that, we celebrated Keaghan's 4th Birthday over Easter weekend. It was a great turn out and I was happy to have Mystic and my family together. It's something I've always wanted. 

Emily has been great, she's such a great big sister and such a sweet girl. I feel like she's struggling with something, but we can't get any answers out of her. I'm hoping with the love and support of both families, we can help her move forward. 

As for me, I've been dabbling in more wood work. I made an entertainment center for Mystic's dad. We also built a dress up station for Keag's bday. 

I'll have more news shortly. A lot of exciting changes are coming soon. 

Until next time,

C

The Path forward

That old saying, You never know where you're going until you know where you've been. I think about that a lot. Where have I been?  I've been all over the world. Met some of the best and some of the worse men and women. I've been with guys I call my Brothers, who wouldn't hesitate to save my life just like I would do for them. I've also met those who tried to hurt/kill me. You know what!!!  I'm still here, and I'm not going anywhere. Having travelled a road that had so much danger, I can't help but appreciate what I have now. It took me some time to realize it, or maybe I just needed the right person. Either way, I know what I have now and will never let her go. I never knew if I'd ever have that feeling of knowing I've met the one, but I feel it now. 

So here we go, life is moving forward and I know I'm going to be side by side with a Beautiful woman. Life is good

Coming Home

So I went to visit a Brother I haven't seen in 10 years. We served in Iraq together. It's been great catching up and spending some time together. As we talked about things, it really makes me realize my own struggles and how we have the same ones. 

One thing is that I find it hard to relate to people anymore. I guess I just see life differently. I'm so hyper-vigilant about everything. I'm overprotective too. I know what dangers are out there and want to be prepared to act when needed. It's extremely exhausting mentally, to have to think that way all the time. I wish I could let my guard down but I just can't. 

Having survived what we did, I can't help but look at life differently. I know there are a lot of my brothers that are worse off than me. I feel obligated to live my life as full as possible. I hope I can make those guys proud. 

There are so many other things we think and feel, and it can take a toll on a relationship. It takes a special woman to want to deal with that. I just hope open communication will help 

Inspiration

There are always people that touch your life. I've had the honor of meeting some very humble and interesting people. We had a neighbor growing up who lived thru the Great Depression. Getting to interview him for a school report was a hilight for me. The struggles he had to go thru were unlike anything we've faced. I can say I knew someone born in the 1800's. Another gentleman was a pilot for Nazi Germany. His plane was shot down on his second mission and he took a 30 cal round thru the leg. He told me about how he got out of Germany with his wife and made his way to America. 

Unfortunately, their lives have passed and I can no longer talk to them. That doesn't take away from the lessons they taught me. Everyone has an interesting story if you take the time to hear it. Sometimes you just need to listen and stop just waiting for your time to talk. 

More recently, I remembered some Marine influences that have me thinking. I spent Thanksgiving on base so others could go home. I was honored to have our battalion commander bring his family into the chow hall and have dinner with us. I also remember General Kelly who I served under in Fallujah. The man was a born leader and I was honored to fight for him. His words rang true on every mission. No matter what the agenda is, our job is to search and destroy the enemy and protect our own. I also had the honor of meeting General Conway, the Commandant of the Marine Corps 

He was personable and asked so many question about where I came from. It's men like these that we fight for and sacrifice because we know that we are never forgotten. 

I just hope our youth takes the time to engage in conversation and learn from those ahead of us. That's the only way our history will be carried on. By listening to those who have been there. 

Letting Go of a Crutch

If there is anything I've learned the past 2 years it's this.....  I have grown to use my career as a crutch to help me get thru tough times. Work is my comfort zone. Maybe because I'm good at what I do. I have a passion for it. It's very easy to just shut everything out and focus on what I do best. It doesn't hurt that I'm very driven and focused on being successful. It also shows my kids how much I will sacrifice to take care of them. I have atattoo  that says, " For those I love, I will Sacrifice". It's the damn truth. I will do anything to protect those I love. 

Not seeing the kids everyday is hard, but I hope they grow up to understand how much I do things for them. Now back

To where I started..... I've reached a major crossroad in my life. I've felt that crutch I've been leaning on is no longer needed. I've been healed for some time now, but just didn't want to let go of it. Everything has come together in my

Life. My career is still going great, the kids are fantastic, and my personal life is as great as it's ever been. It's funny how you meet someone that just puts it all

Together for you. Realizing how happy you can be is so freeing and satisfying. I'm just so excited to share my life and also share hers. This is going to be a great ride. I can't wait. 

C

Let's Continue On

I wrote my last post because I was on to something. I honestly had a feeling that what I've been searching for was right there. I found the woman I was supposed to find. Someone sweet, caring, and sassy enough to challenge me. 

I'm a very happy guy and can't wait to keep building our relationship. It's been a long journey thru some very trying and difficult times. There were times I thought I was destined to be unhappy. All that did was show me everything I don't want and lead me to someone who is exactly what I want. 

I'm very excited to see where out lives go on from here. I just know there will be many more posts about us and how much we are enjoying life. 

C

Random Thought

     I wish I knew all the lessons I am supposed to learn from people. I'm mainly talking about the dating world. In your 30's, late 30's to be exact, trying to date is hard. I guess I've become selective just because I know what I want, and don't want to settle. Let me tell you, it makes for some very short relationships.... You meet these women who are just wanting sex all the time, or can't seem to get themselves out of a bar to save their life. Before you stop my, I'm not an angel, but I just want more substance out of a relationship. If there is anything women should learn, is that men are hunters. We have an instinct, so if you make it so easy we don't have to hunt then we will lose interest.


     I've tried this internet dating thing, and it's ok I guess. It just makes me feel like a piece of meat. And for whatever reason, I get hit on by these obese women all the time. I'm not sure why, but they like this fella!! It's not so much that I'm against being overweight, cause I know I'm not perfect. It's everything else. As a guy, I want to be the bigger person in the relationship. I want to protect them, not have them fight my battles for me. Secondly, Its a mentality thing. I try and stay active and eat clean. You'll find more often than not, they are lazy and have no motivation to try and improve themselves.
    What's the point of all this, I'm not really sure. I just know that every time I meet someone new, I just learn one more thing I don't want in a spouse. I'm excited for the moment that you have when you meet someone special. After talking for a little while, and having your first date, you realize that they are the one you want to build something with. Now, will it work out, I have no clue. But if you both see something in each other, and enjoy your time together, things will happen like they are supposed too. I'm on that track now, and I can't wait to see what happens